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m4m: Make Your Move

November 8, 2017
m4m: Make Your Move

I revert back to my single days and try to notice if I was at fault at not making the move of my pawn or knight correctly or fast enough, or to even finish the game at all. Due to my East Coast style of communication, people often think because I have a relatively calm […]

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Gay Men Love Who Are Ambitious, but Boring

October 4, 2017
Gay Men Love Who Are Ambitious, but Boring

As I approached the normalcy of my life after my majestic trip to Europe for my 30th birthday, like many gay men love, I started to notice that my schedule became exuberantly tight and very busy. I am pretty good at managing life’s stressors, but man, was September a busy month – the busiest month […]

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Men Looking for Men and Learning to Fail

August 9, 2017
Men Looking for Men and Learning to Fail

As my 30th birthday approaches, there has been such a centrifuge of comparison between the old version of myself, and who I want to be in this new stage of my life. Sometimes, we as men looking for men, can fall into that train of thought. A person told me recently that you learn more […]

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Gay Pride and Summer Haze

July 5, 2017
Gay Pride and Summer Haze

My 30th birthday is coming up and I am excited. I booked a long trip to go to Europe solo and it is my first international trip – talk about having some gay pride. I remember sitting in my office toying with the idea of planning something special for myself, but didn’t want to spend […]

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Most Powerful Gay Men and Soul Search

May 24, 2017
Most Powerful Gay Men and Soul Search

Through the years, I hung onto the fact that I was never “pretty” enough to be at the cool kids table in the lunchroom. I never felt like I was quite one of the most powerful gay men I wanted to be in my early years. There comes a time when we must let go in […]

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Gay Friends and Mental Break

May 1, 2017
Gay Friends and Mental Break

I was once told, “To be frank, I just don’t love you back.” My first initial thoughts were obvious devastation. However, my more prominent thoughts splashed over me like a pragmatic wave, that the feeling of angst fervently diminished. My true gay friends offered me the same approach to support me. For some twisted reason, […]

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Gay Dating Los Angeles and The Power of “No”

April 10, 2017
Gay Dating Los Angeles and The Power of “No”

These past few months have been some of the most stressful of my life. I mean, gay dating Los Angeles can be stressful to most! Do you ever feel cornered by your own trials and tribulations of life and all you can do is take the blows and wish for it to be over? Owning […]

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Gay Men in Los Angeles and Keeping Up With (or Ignoring) The Jones’

March 20, 2017
Gay Men in Los Angeles and Keeping Up With (or Ignoring) The Jones’

This month has been a bit of an eye-opening experience between quite a few of my newer clients, gay men in Los Angeles. As I have told many over the years, lifestyle is a really important piece of compatibility in relationships, especially in gay men. This is heavily influenced by socio-economic status, and sometimes one’s […]

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Successful Gay Man and Their Breadcrumb Trail

February 14, 2017
Successful Gay Man and Their Breadcrumb Trail

First of all, Happy Valentine’s Day! May this day be full of reminders on how you accept and give love to others! Do something special for YOURself today, regardless if you are single, dating, or in a relationship. A successful gay man will do something special for themselves, and you should follow suit. As I […]

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Gay Los Angeles and Coming Out or Staying in Your Shell

January 16, 2017
Gay Los Angeles and Coming Out or Staying in Your Shell

“New Year, new you” – isn’t this the cliché mantra we always are accustomed to going into a new year? The holidays are gone, gay los angeles is in full swing, and whether we were swept away from an unexpected yuletide romance or feeling the dread of being alone in the new year, we often […]

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