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Wealthy Gay Men and Millennial Mayhem

July 25, 2018
Wealthy Gay Men and Millennial Mayhem

I recently just watched “Hello My Name is Doris” with Sally Field and then also I watched a short and informative video by author Simon Sinek, who doesn’t seem like one of those wealthy gay men. If you are a millennial and care about how you are being perceived by the rest of the world, […]

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2018 Summer Gay Male Speed Dating (Ages 25 to 40) Stats!

July 24, 2018
2018 Summer Gay Male Speed Dating (Ages 25 to 40) Stats!

Southern California was hit by an enormous heatwave, but we all stayed cool inside Toasted and Roasted sipping on cold brew and making new connections. We started off with sharing our occupations and then any fun vacation we recently went on or where looking forward to this summer. We speed dated for 4 to 5 […]

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Pride Festival: Open Heart, Open Mind

July 2, 2018
Pride Festival: Open Heart, Open Mind

We all start to realize the love we deserve eventually. We have conversations with individuals that enhance our life, cause us distress, or even to just pass the time. We might even have it at a pride festival. It’s important to know when to have a conversation of progression in a way versus a mundane […]

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Gay Power Couples and The Call Back

May 14, 2018
Gay Power Couples and The Call Back

“Thank you for calling me back.” “Thank you for responding.” “Thank you for the prompt response.” How many times have you heard of this in normal vernacular of today’s age? I really start to pause and think about where we went wrong when it came to effective communication styles. With the advent of technology, I […]

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Pre-Cinco de Mayo Gay Male Speed Dating (Ages 30 to 45) Wrap Up!

May 8, 2018
Pre-Cinco de Mayo Gay Male Speed Dating (Ages 30 to 45) Wrap Up!

We had a lot of fun over at Toasted and Roasted for another fun night of speed dating. We started off with an ice breaker about someone’s occupation, and then shared any fun summer plans someone had like any upcoming travel plans. Here are some statistics we had from our event… We had 13 total […]

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Gay Community and the Corner in the Room​​

April 17, 2018
Gay Community and the Corner in the Room​​

Isolation can really place us in one of the worst places in almost a metaphysical stasis in the gay community. We can often place ourselves in this state, even when on paper it seems like we have this supportive and communal arsenal around us. I remember going into that space of depression when I had […]

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*March Madness* Gay Male Speed Dating Wrap-Up. Ages 40+.

March 21, 2018
*March Madness* Gay Male Speed Dating Wrap-Up. Ages 40+.

We had a splendid time at our most recent *SOLD OUT* speed dating event. We had a tremendous amount of success with matches, and got a little festive with the approaching St. Paddy’s Day. Here are some statistics of what went down at our event: We had a grand total of 18 speed daters, and […]

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Gay Celebrities and Being the Middle Man Five

March 20, 2018
Gay Celebrities and Being the Middle Man Five

After many years of sharing fairly similar conversations with individuals, and some of them being gay celebrities, I begin to see a correlation and similarities in dating preferences. For example, “I want a guy who is equal parts social and equal parts stay at home” is something I hear on the daily. As human beings, […]

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Valentine’s Day: Taking a Heart Break

February 13, 2018
Valentine’s Day: Taking a Heart Break

There was a point in my life where I was going up to the door of life and it kept slamming in my face. My usual bright optimism was being depleted and the roots of my labor became dry and lacked nourishment. Here we are approaching Valentine’s Day and my personal light becomes quite dim. […]

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Happy New Year! Gay Male Speed Dating. Ages 25 to 40.

January 29, 2018
Happy New Year! Gay Male Speed Dating. Ages 25 to 40.

We had a superb kick-off to the new year with our speed dating event over at Toasted and Roasted. To break the ice, we shared our occupations/fields of interest and also a goal we had for 2018. We speed dated between 4 and 5 minutes each round – just enough time to see if there […]

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